Day 20 By Your Side
Dubrovnik - Bari
14.06.2026
No surprise I am up early and could sleep on but I my age I seem programmed to get up early. I know the breakfast routine and go enjoy the buffet, but I try and eat a normal amount rather than filling my plate since I have to bike up a mountain or two. My appetite and habit is to keep eating even though I wont be burning off hundreds of calories.
After breakfast I walk across the street to the ferry office and pick up my ticket and seat assignment. I have plenty of time and walk along the harbor. As my sister pointed out I am lucky to have visited with Crystal and have great memories. I do enjoy my big travels, but it makes me want to go back and visit some of the places as well as new with Crystal.


Back at the hotel I double check that I have everything packed for the ship. I rearranged my bags so I have all I need for the voyage in one small bag I carry with me, and the rest can stay one bike.
Boarding is easy with a quick ticket check and I ride my bike into the belly of the ship. There are 4 other cyclists boarding and we are directed to the sides of other ship where there are large metal loops and ropes for us to tie our bikes securely to the sides. From here I walk up a few flights of stairs to the third floor and check in at reception. My ticket for a reserved seat which is on the fifth floor.
The fifth floor has several sections—some reserved seating and some general. The reserved seating has first class and general seating and I have general, but to be honest the ship isn’t very full and people are sitting wherever they want.


As we ship leaves I go to one of the outside decks as we navigate the harbor and out to the Adriatic Sea. The journey to Bari is 8 hours, but the ship is big so it is nice to get up walk around, go out on the deck, etc. Not as confining as the plane ride from the U.S. I have my headphones and plan on listening to music, reading and putting down my final thoughts here in the blog.






As I have said so many times, I have a lot of time to think and today is another one of those times. While I choose to bike for my own personal reasons, I think that travel of any kind is a great benefit. Learning, discovering, participating one dialogue with new people. It doesn’t matter if it is a different state, region or country meeting different people and trying to understand more about them and their experience.
Even my people watching within active interaction shows me a lot about people—the importance of relationships, family, etc.—and just how much we are alike. At the castle in Schkoder the ticket attendant asked what country which isn’t uncommon. I think they keep track for statistics. Of course, I said United States. He replied by saying he was from Iran. Then he put out his hand to shake mine. As we shook hands he smiled and in a strong accent said “We meet in Albania”.
I thought about that incident multiple times since then. How do I interact with people, listen to them, not assume. I go back to the song I quoted at the start of this blog—Song for Walking—and these couple lines—
I‘ll see all the ways I have grown
I’ll see how far there is to go
I’ll return a better man
All part of my bigger journey.
After a long 8 hours ferry ride I arrive in Bari and bike to the hotel where I meet Crystal waiting for me in the lobby. We spend some time with the group she is touring with and I hear all about their trip and answer questions about mine. Then it is off to dinner with just Crystal for some time just for the two of us.



Today is the end of the my bike journey through Albania, Montenegro, Bosnia Herzegovina and Croatia. And what a beautiful, challenging and amazing journey. Of course, I couldn’t gel but think of a song that would be appropriate, and another song by Tophouse came to mind—The Mountain Song.
We climbed a mountain
And I picked wildflowers and put 'em in her hair
And at the top we found a meadow
And danced barefoot in the grass
And I'm not lying there were bluebirds in the air
It was a long one
There was a time or two we felt like giving up
But every fall and every stumble made us
Stop and see the wonder
With your hand in mine we pushed on towards the top
Why do people climb mountains?
Is it just to reach the top and see the view?
Well I'll tell you something
Every rock and every river
Every sore and every splinter
I would climb every mountain with you
Well the clouds rolled in
There was lightning there was thunder there was rain
As we hid beneath our shelter
All the doubts that we had felt
Came pouring in as a flood we had to face
Then came the sunshine
The clouds rolled back and color filled the earth
And the rain had brought the flowers
You could sit and stare for hours
And the toil and the struggle showed its worth
Why do people climb mountains?
Is it just to reach the top and see the view?
Well I'll tell you something
Every rock and every river
Every sore and every splinter
In the summer, in the winter
When it's warm and when we shiver
I would climb every mountain with you
I picked wildflowers
We climbed a mountain
I picked wildflowers
We climbed a mountain
I picked wildflowers
We climbed a mountain
I picked wildflowers
Why do people climb mountains?
Is it just to reach the top and see the view?
Well I'll tell you something
Every rock and every river
Every sore and every splinter
In the summer, in the winter
When it's warm and when we shiver
When our feet are full of blisters
When it's sweet and when it's bitter
I'd climb every mountain with you
I have talked a lot about climbing mountains on this trip. Not to be dramatic, but we all know there are far more difficult and important challenges to be faced in life. I like the song because it talks about facing those challenges with someone. And because this is my blog I can throw in another song that comes to mind is by Marc Scibilia—here is the chorus.
By your side
You're the only place that I'll ever belong
By your side
You're the end of every road I travel on
'Til I'm old, 'til I die
Honey, home's wherever I lie, li-lie, lie, li-lie
By your side

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